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Friday, 05 June 2009

  • 63 things to do this summer

    Toronto star celebrated Toronto's 175th birthday with a list of 175 reasons to love Toronto.

    I took a look and wrote the ones I wanted to do this summer.  In no particular order, here they are!
    And if you want to come along on one of my little adventures in the city, let me know!

    1. Visit little Malta and try some kinnie
    2. Visit little Azores and try some churrasco
    3. Visit the church in the courtyard of Eaton Centre
    4. Visit the prayer labyrinth
    5. Visit the footbridge at the mouth of the Humber
    6. Go to the newspaper reading room at the Toronto reference library
    7. Go to the restaurant devoted to poutine
    8. See the local history at mount pleasant cemetery
    9. Go check out the private viewing booths at NFB's mediatheque
    10. Theatre classics : soulpepper
    11. Michael Snow's Canada geese sculpture in Eaton Centre
    12. Utopia 401 Richmond and Wychwood Art Barns
    13. Humber bay butterfly habitat
    14. Sugar Museum
    15. Eat across the globe at St. Lawrence Market on a Saturday
    16. Flume log ride in Ontario place
    17. The Dakota Tavern
    18. Colin Partridge tree carvings in High Park
    19. Little Korea's sweet walnut cake machines
    20. Free summertime promise parties at Cherry beach
    21. Deer watching at G. Ross Lord park
    22. Indie rock: Apostle of hustle, Woodhands
    23. Leslie St. Split - migrating bird watching
    24. See the Gorilla compound at the Toronto Zoo
    25. See the vehicle free zone that is Ward Island
    26. Baldwin St
    27. Do Tai Chi at Christie Pitts
    28. Attend the Nathan Phillips Square jazz fest
    29. Attend a performance by live literati such as Michael Ondaatje or Bryan Lee O'Malley
    30. Brookfield Place Atrium
    31. Attend a comedy session at Bad Dog, Comedy Bar or Second City
    32. Taste some Kensington Market Organic Ice Cream: fig and molasses, chestnut and birch syrup to name a few
    33. Massey Hall
    34. Try some delicacies in the Distillery District such as Mayan hot chocolate at Soma, organic beer at Mill St brewery, exotic cheese at A Taste of Quebec, Meat Pies from Brick St. Bakery
    35. Ride a rickshaw
    36. Carlu - listen to live music
    37. Eat brunch in leslieville
    38. Ron Baird's Steel sculpture on Dufferin St South of Steeles Ave
    39. Downtown driving range that doubles as a drive in theatre
    40. Attend the Dufferin Grove organic farmers market open every thursday from 3pm to 7pm year round
    41. Go for Mojitos at Julies
    42. Listen to live Cuban music at Lula lounge
    43. Eat some Hakka food in Scarborough
    44. Check out an open air ban at Harbourfront
    45. Read a book on a slab of granite on Yorkville Ave
    46. Try some fresh pupusas on Augusta Ave
    47. Jackie Richardson
    48. check out Dusk Dances and Shakespeare in the Park
    49. Patio time: The Madison, Quigleys, The Rectory
    50. Watching glass blowers at York Quay Centre
    51. Lying on the grass for a concert at Molson Amphitheatre
    52. Sample pa'an-wallah on Gerard St
    53. Doors Open
    54. Check out the R.C. harris fortress of water filtration
    55. York University Glendon campus
    56. Cinematheque Ontario
    57. Bridle Path
    58. Royal Agricultural Winter Fair
    59. Trinity Bellwoods Park
    60. Taste of Dover at Bluffers Park
    61. the new Michael Lee-Chin crystal at the ROM
    62. The new AGO.
    63. Attend a live theatre show (did you know that Toronto is only behind London and New York for live theatre?)

    The reasons I stopped with the links is that it kinda takes the magic away from the place if I already know something about it. 

    Today I went hunting for the church in the Eaton Centre courtyard.  Not knowing what it looked like I wandered around until a nice cute female pointed the way for this obvious out-of-towner.    I thought I found it but it was in fact the back of old city hall.  I reversed directions and found a route I didn't know about and came across a nice garden with, surprise, a prayer labyrinth! 

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    It's in braille for the blind!  How cool is that?

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    I followed the path with my finger at first but then decided to finish what I started.  I walked the path with one other lady already deep in the labyrinth.  It was nice and relaxing.  Almost theraputic I want to say.  Soon after a Brazilian guy decided to join in and then he was followed by an asian girl and then a young african man followed by a caucasian lady and her husband.  I got to thinking that this labyrinth is symbolic of the journey we all take with all it's twists and turns.  Interesting to note that half was covered in shadow while the other side of it was hot from the day.  Dichotomy of good times/bad times perhaps?  regardless, it was nice and relaxing.  Soothing almost.  Kinda like being rocked to sleep y'know?  That kind of feeling.

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    Next to it, I found the Holy Trinity Church.  You can't not pray in a place like this and so, sitting on a pew, I said a little prayer.  It kind of felt like the appropriate thing to do after finishing a quest of sorts.

    With two of the 63 down, I celebrated by sitting in Nathan Phillips Square with one of the new international food items from the A La Carte food stand.  I got myself some spicy chicken brioni, a Milanese style with a bit of mint sauce on the side (mint sauce recommended to help with the spiciness!). 

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    More city adventures to come!

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  • six months in

    So summer has finally arrived!

    To update, so far 2009 has been pretty much predictable and things have gone as planned for the most part.
    I finally closed with my condo and am officially a home owner!  Things in that respect was a little crazy as the lawyer fees and closing costs really surprised me.  Like when they say have at least $5000-$10000 ready, that's what you need baby. 

    In other news I've finally paid off my Macbook Pro and paid off my braces.   To finally have the braces come off after a year and half of suffering is no little relief I tell ya.  But the result is better than I could've hoped for!  They even managed to fix the chip on the front tooth!  Flossing with the permanent retainers is a bit of a pain though but that's a small price to pay for perfect teeth.  Been receiving a lot of comments on my new smile and so am feeling real good about the decision to get them.  Better late than never right?

    I've been playing a lot of PS3 lately.  Maybe too much?  It's not my fault that the games are so great.  Like Fallout 3, Heavenly Sword (both really amazing games), Ninja Gaiden Sigma (hard but awesome graphics) and now UFC (anyone want to battle online?  message me your PS user id), and Infamous.  I know, I'm a nerd.  An old one at that.  But just because I play games don't mistake me for the type that has doritos stains on his shirt and has Jessica Alba posters in his room.  It's more like stirfry stains and surfing posters now.

    Yes, I've learned the magical art of stir-fry and you know what?  It's not hard!  I bought some snow peas and mushrooms and chicken breasts and thought I'd give it a try.  Here's what you do.  Cut up the chicken in bite size pieces and stir in a marinade of 1 tsp of cornstarch mixed with 3 tbsp of soy sauce.  Cook the chicken in a pan over medium heat, once done, put in the snow peas, sliced mushrooms and mix in some oyster sauce and voila, you have dinner.  So I moved from KD to Stir fry.  Such is the bachelor evolution.  Slow like molasses.

    My camera broke and so I am in the market for a new DSLR.  People recommend either a Nikon or Canon and so I'm doing my research until I can have enough saved up. 

    Well a lot more I could write but I'll hold off until another day.  Lots coming up too!  Might head over to Vancouver in September so I'll give you guys a shout when I'm in town!  I need my sushi fix yo!

    I'm actually surprised to see this site is still up.  Does anyone read this thing?
    Until next time, Asta.


Saturday, 03 January 2009

  • HAPPY NEW YEAR '09

    So that was 2008.


    Wow.  Some words come to mind.

                        unexpected

        consequence
      
                                       costs of ownership
     
          
                                                                  thirty
                Hawaii

                                                                               Malibu

                       Madeline and Matthew

                                                                                               Credit Score

                           Surfing
                                                                                                               Thankful

                                        Roscoe's Chicken and Waffles
     
                                                                                                  Grandma
     
                        Braces

       and by the way, none of the above really have much to do with the other but yet are all inter-related someway.  For example, 'unexpected' goes with 'credit score' and 'costs of ownership'.  See?  It's a little game.  'Thankful' goes with the time I had a chance to spend with my niece and nephew 'Madeline and Matthew' this year.

    So what happened in '08 that made my life a haiku?  Finally, FINALLY moved into my new condo in April,  had a great but very brief trip to Hawaii where I went on a whim, learned to surf on the ocean, stood on my board, good times.  Went to New York, twice.  Went to LA for Jenny's wedding and it was so great to have all the family there.  Roscoes Chicken and Waffles!  Can't say enough about the place.  A MUST VISIT!  Hanging out poolside with my cousins at a hotel that I wasn't staying at.  Free towels haha suckers.  (of course I didn't take them.)  Grandma's funeral.  My lifestyle finally catching up with me and having to learn to live paycheck to paycheck to pay the bills, for now anyway.  Consequence. 

    But it all comes to an end anyway doesn't it?  And then it starts all over again.  Looking forward to '09 as my condo officially becomes 'mine', work is looking as good as it did when I started five years ago and I'm still loving my job.  I'm going to have my braces taken off in April, pay off my dad and my Apple macbook pro becomes fully paid off.  The latter half of '09 is looking especially promising as I'll probably head to Europe this summer or fall.  And oh yes, I'll have the cash to do so.  I hope.

    And finally, turning thirty.  It's just a number but it's a BIG number.  scary.  But I live in Toronto and half the people here that are my age are single so it really doesn't matter.  Yep, the relationship thing and the bane of my existence.  But I've learned to let things take their course and spend more time on just enjoying all experiences that come my way.  At the same time however, I am taking initiative to take more responsibility and wanting to learn more about everything. 

    So cheers to '09.  Farewell 2008, it's been wild.  2009, here I come. 

    Ready or not.

Friday, 12 December 2008

  • Reflections on being cold

    It's cold outside.

    It's so cold, I'm using my windshield scraper to take the frost off my leg hairs!  The temperature says that it's only -5 degrees but with the windchill it feels a LOT colder.   It's long underwear time.  The only thing I have against long underwear is that if you wear them under jeans, it looks like you're wearing adult diapers.  Not that theres anything wrong with that.  Hey whatever saves you time or something right? 

    So we're currently in a recession.  People have overspent and many people are in debt over their heads wondering just how they got themselves in such a mess.  Nobody ever plans to get themselves financially in a rut but it happens all the time just the same.  And the only solution they know is to borrow more to pay off bills while getting deeper in debt.  And while times are good, it seems that things are under control.  For a time being they are but eventually there comes a point where extra cash is that much more hard to come by and creative juggling and a re-evaluation of your finances is in order.  And you find that you don't have enough.  What do you do?  This is the path many of my fellow university graduates face even five, six years after graduation.  Even with a good income and a good career, student loan debts added to costs of living plus mortgage and car payments and....well the list goes on....it can be pretty depressing for a young adult in mid twenties to early thirties.  And our response is one of frustration saying, "screw it.  I'm going to go buy me something to take my mind off this." 

    I don't have an answer but I'm proud to say that I've learned to live with less and give up things that aren't essential.  I pack my meals now (it's not as hard as I thought it would be), gave up cable, drive only when necessary, and most importantly, I never refuse free food.  You know when you refuse to be polite?  "No, no auntie, that's ok.  I'm good.  Really!"  Forget that!  I'm now giving a 'suggestion list' if anyone ever feels so inclined. 

    In the midst of all this I realize just how incredibly fortunate I am to be where I am.  I'm thankful.  I just hope I've learned a valuable lesson here somewhere.

    2009 is looking good! 

Thursday, 23 October 2008

  • The end of another decade

    Remember that show back in the eighties called, 'Thirty-something'? 

    when it came out I was still in single digits and really didn't care to watch it but I've always remembered the title. 

    Maybe the title stood out to me because I wondered, "Who would want to watch a show about people in their thirties?  Maybe to the late twenties, max 26, but after...boring!"  Yeah, I really thought that.  I mean, what would the Mighty Morphin Power Rangers do in their thirties?  Sure that big robot could smash that asian lady but could it pay their mortgage?  That'd be an episode I'd like to see. 

    Scene one:  The evil credit bureau headquarters

    Credit Monster: Soon....soon I'll have control and no one will be able to qualify for any long term amortization loans!  Muahahahahaa!

    anyway.  Good-bye twenties, it was fun.  Hello thirties, please be kind to me.  haha. 

    I am somewhat nervous as I fear that mistakes that I make now will have bigger consequences overall than in my younger years.  Relational, financial, occupational etc....the stakes are bigger now.  I have more to lose and for the first time I sense that time is slipping away.  In the past decade it was all about Carpe Diem, 'seizing the day', living each day as if it were your last.  Now comes the realization that the lifestyle I lived comes with a price tag. 

    Still soul searching, still trying to find my identity, still so many questions that remain unanswered and many more questions still pile up. 

    I am very fortunate.  I have a great job that I love, I have amazing friends, I live in an amazing city, am in good health, have the means to travel, and most importantly, I have many toys to play with.

    I guess I have to start growing up sometime.  Now is as good a time as ever.

    .....

    nah.


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